Diametrically Opposed

Diametrically Opposed
-Two points directly opposite each other on a circle or sphere.
-Completely opposed : being at opposite extremes

We currently exist in a reality where each day can be 
diametrically opposed to the next.  We've experienced a bit of Little Shop of Horrors and some scenes more likely found on Little House on the Prairie.

Today, for instance, I provided the girls with some simple flash cards on numerous topics - Coins, addition, subtraction, multiplication, and some basic word-building.  After a brief amount of time with the girls, I went on to other tasks.  Shortly after this interaction, the girls came to ask how to pronounce some of the numbers again in English.  They wanted to practice saying the names of the numbers.  They asked me to write out all the names of all the numbers.  Having the words in the dictionary wasn't enough.  They wanted each numeral and written name on a legal pad that they could count, repeat, and write in their own hand.  While I was making dinner, I could hear their chanting of names of numbers.  It wasn't too much longer before they were downstairs wanting to recite the words to us.  At one point, two girls were practicing words and one was practicing the guitar.  Moments like this help us somewhat make it through the scenes from Little Shop of Horrors.  :-)

As the calendar continues to move on, despite our best efforts to slow it down, the girls are faced with the start of the school year.  Each of the girls has shown excitement for school in their own way. They've asked if they get to ride the bus, when we will shop for school clothes, and when we will buy their supplies.  Soon enough, each of the girls will be on their own in the wilderness of an American school.  Fortunately, I've had some encouraging conversations with school administrators and look forward to working closely with the adults that will have primary contact with the girls.

We continue to need support in many ways.  We gain strength from your thoughts and prayers, and we will never be able to adequately thank our family and friends for their love, patience, and generosity. 

Thank you for being with us throughout the adventure.

More Firsts

Thank you for your patience as we attempt to figure out our life together.  

Tomorrow makes 6 weeks that we've been home as a family.  There have been many firsts for all of us.  The girls have experienced their first appointment with an American doctor, including the first round of shots needed to catch up for school.  Later today, they will experience their first dentist appointment here in the states.  

In addition, they've played at the splash park, visited Brookfield Zoo, floated in a lazy river, ridden down water slides, celebrated the 4th of July, chosen dare-devil rides at a local carnival, and met my brother Andy and his wife Tiffany.

Many other adventures are on the horizon, especially with school around the corner.  We continue to need your thoughts and prayers every day.  Many days are good, but as expected, some days are immensely challenging.  We are trying our best to stay calm, roll with bumps, and wake up each day with a renewed perspective - sometimes easier said than done.

Thanks again for all of your support.

May 31, 2013

May 31, 2013

• Departed from the orphanage to the airport in Port Au Prince around 8 a.m.
• Arrived at the airport a few hours later
• Flew out of Port Au Prince about 1:00 p.m.
• Landed in Miami by 3:00 p.m.
• Waited in immigration for several hours and missed our flight to Chicago
• Barely avoided a mighty kid meltdown
• Booked another flight to Chicago leaving at 8:10 p.m.
• Arrived home by midnight
• Began life together in our home exactly one year to the day of being officially "matched" with the girls

New adventures in the airport:

• flushing toilet paper
• faucets that turn on by themselves
• soap that dispenses itself
• escalators
• doors that open by stepping on the mat
• and just about everything else

Amazingly, we've been home for just over two weeks.  We've experienced incredible challenges and an equally incredible amount of growth.  The girls started day camp at Grandme and Grandpe's church on Monday.  Although camp starts at 9:00, they were up at 5:30 a.m. getting ready-the youngest had her backpack on by 6:00. The girls enjoyed their day, engaged with the games and activities, and were bummed that we weren't going back until Wednesday.

We cannot begin to thank everyone appropriately for all the blessings we've received.  The girls have a wonderful room because of many of you.  They've looked beautiful in new summer outfits and shoes, played for numerous hours on scooters, and braided the hair of dolls...because of you.

While we continue to be dazed part of the time, amazed at our new reality, and crazed by the food bills, increased utilities, and the number of times we repeat a certain name, we remember that we've only been in the game for a few short weeks.  

We so appreciate everyone's continued prayers and thoughtfulness.  We truly do not know how we would have ever gotten this far without you.  The prayers and support are needed every minute of the day and we know you are supporting us from afar.

Without any action on our part, the girls were seated in first class for the flight to Miami.  They did beautifully during the flight and enjoyed being treated to hot towels and a big salad.  :-)

Men Anpil Chay Pa Lou

Men Anpil Chay Pa Lou 

Many Hands Make the Load Light

A friend found this Haitian proverb many months ago when we first started this journey.  How grateful we are for the friends and family that surround us.

We are truly stunned by the generosity, care, and blessings that we've received from our family and friends over the past many months.  Whether it's Dad painting the girls' room (and many other rooms), Wayne putting together beds we were given, friends throwing a beautiful shower, or all the generous gifts and donations - we are blessed.

Our anxiety has been eased by everyone who has shared a kind word, offered support, or provided a gift that's allowed us to purchase mattresses, comforters, shoes, hair care products, counseling sessions, classes, swimsuits, and everything in between.

Vivid

viv·id

    adjective

1.

strikingly bright or intense, as color, light, etc.: a vivid green.

2.

full of life; lively; animated: a vivid personality.

We've always had "vanilla" walls.  Neutral paint, no wallpaper, ordinary.  While many of our walls will still be neutral, the girls come from a land of intense and vivid colors - amazing hues stretching across the color spectrum.

Our task of selecting the right color for their room started in the Home Depot paint department.  Staring up at the wall of color squares, trying to determine what might be a good fit, feeling uncertain. 

After several minutes of pondering, a color caught my eye..."I really like this one...not sure if it will be too bright, but it's beautiful."  Pulling the paint swatch from the wall, we looked curiously for the name - Haitian Flower.  No pondering needed.
#UL 100-16 Haitian Flower Interior

One wall, highlighting the beautiful furniture from a friend.  The rest of the walls are vanilla.   :-)

pleth·o·ra

pleth·o·ra  noun
overabundance; excess


We've been meaning to post this picture for awhile now...

One of our recent tasks was to finish the required paperwork for the U.S. Immigration process.  Many forms, phone calls, and filing tasks later, poof!  One set, 93 pages...3 sets, 279 pages.  One tired printer.
Huge sense of accomplishment.

Learning Curve

We are experiencing the Mount Everest of learning curves.  In preparation for the "becoming a family" learning curves, we are crawling our way through language learning, feeling our way through understanding the impact of trauma, and braiding our way through hair and skin care.  

Fortunately, mountains are for climbing...and persevering...and standing in awe of the beauty around you.

Last Saturday, one of our stops along the climb was our first hair and skin care class.  The Cradle, an agency in Evanston, offers this and other classes.  We're grateful for their training and support.  Wayne and the other dads were applauded for their effort and growing skill.